When Your Empathy Becomes Your Exhaustion: A Gentle Path to Boundary-Setting

When Your Empathy Becomes Your Exhaustion: A Gentle Path to Boundary-Setting

When Your Empathy Becomes Your Exhaustion: A Gentle Path to Boundary-SettingPoh Gan
Published on: 28/03/2025

I sat in my car after a particularly draining clinic day, feeling that familiar tightness in my chest. My clients' stories and emotions were still echoing in my mind, and I had to now rush to pick up my children from school and then off to after-school activities and dinner preparation.

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The Illusion of our so-called 'life'

The Illusion of our so-called 'life'

The Illusion of our so-called 'life'Poh Gan
Published on: 06/03/2025

Amongst the busy schedule, do you have some space to connect to your Self? By capital S Self, I mean the state of being that holds all things together - the state that allows thinking, doing, and daydreaming to take place. The state that allows emotions, both pleasant and unpleasant, to run their course.

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Embracing Our Neurodivergent Journey: Week One of She Blossoms Beta Program

Embracing Our Neurodivergent Journey: Week One of She Blossoms Beta Program

Embracing Our Neurodivergent Journey: Week One of She Blossoms Beta ProgramPoh Gan
Published on: 21/02/2025

Behind the Scenes of Program Creation Picture this: a desk alive with creative chaos - Trello board illuminated, Descript (my video editing companion) humming away, Canva tabs multiplying, and Safari tabs multiplying like crazy.

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The Mountain, The Mind, and The Path: Lessons from Mount Kinabalu

The Mountain, The Mind, and The Path: Lessons from Mount Kinabalu

The Mountain, The Mind, and The Path: Lessons from Mount KinabaluPoh Gan
Published on: 27/01/2025

Twenty-one hours of hiking Mount Kinabalu taught me more about self-care as a sensitive therapist than years of traditional training. This wasn't just a physical journey – it was a profound metaphor for the path of healing and growth.

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